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Rape is Rape by XxchantellexX Rape is Rape by XxchantellexX
Why is it that when someone creates a stamp or says that men get raped too someone has to chime in with less often?

Why? Is rape somehow less sever to men because they get raped less often.

Should we just focus on women just because men are raped less often?

Why even bring that up when people say men get raped too or that women rape men too?

What rhyme or reason is there to bring that up?

How is is relevant?

Well I don't know, but I kind take it as rape for men is less important because men statistically experience it less. If that is the case it's the same line of thinking when people say that less men get breast cancer.

Why are we so bias to something that affects both genders just a horribly?

By the way, the background image is not an actual representation of how much men get raped compared to men. It's just a decoration that I felt would be appropriate.

You may use this, but please don't take credit. I don't even care if you post this to another site as long as you don't say you made it. I would appreciate it if you showed where you post this if it's not on this site, but it is not a definite requirement. ^.^
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:iconedithel:
Edithel Featured By Owner Mar 14, 2017
How could someone think that male rape victims are funny
How sadistic and apathetic do you have to be to think that a horrible crime that ruins someones life is okay because they have a penis what the fuck
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PeytonTheRiolu Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
some asshole tried to rape me in a changing room in PE (and yes it was a guy and yes it was at school and YES THE SCHOOL DID NOTHING ABOUT IT) im lucky i was fast enough to push him out and slam the door in his face! 
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mochikitt Featured By Owner Feb 6, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
its because society naturally thinks that men love sex.




someone please end my suffering im ready to leave earth
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:icontroops21:
Troops21 Featured By Owner Mar 27, 2017  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I shall take you to another world!
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Maple-Trees Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2017  Hobbyist Digital Artist
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Jan 31, 2017  Hobbyist General Artist
You are welcome. 
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RedandBalck Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2016
Tautology...

Gives us no new information.
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:iconthe-guy-you-hate:
the-guy-you-hate Featured By Owner Aug 15, 2016  Professional General Artist
Oh don't be silly. All men love sex. Any who don't are gay!

Because women get pregnant. So, if you are a male and get raped by a woman (friendly reminder, if you don't like it, you're gay!) and she gets pregnant, it's your problem.

It doesn't matter that you're 14. That you're not ready, financially or emotionally prepared to raise a child. You didn't want it? Should have kept your pants on!

Someone fucking shoot me!
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:iconlizzerina369:
Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Edited Sep 13, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Wow-

Let me tell you a story: my best friend, a boy, was sexually abused by his mother's ex-boyfriend during the time she was dating said man. 

He forced the boy into anal and oral sex. 

He was ELEVEN. Go ahead and tell me he liked it. I dare you. I fucking DARE you to tell me that an innocent, eleven-year-old boy "enjoyed" being treated like a sexual ragdoll by a scary adult. 

Also. This is in response to your idiotic comment: 

First of all? Gay men can have sex, dumbass. It's called anal (if it's penetration), and there's also oral. 

Second of all, you're talking about a 14-year-old boy who got raped. Legally, he's still a child, and he wouldn't be aware of what his attacker was doing to him, he only knew that it was bad. 

Third of all, not all men 'love sex.' This is a very common misconception. A lot of guys actually don't like sex. 

By definition. Sexual assault is UNWANTED SEXUAL ADVANCES MADE TOWARDS YOU. Men can get sexually assaulted too, whether some man or woman grabbed his crotch or his butt. It happens. 
By definition, rape is UNWANTED penetration. Men can be raped anally with an object or another man's penis. 

That doesn't sound wanted, does it? No. So shut the fuck up. 
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spikestormify Featured By Owner Jan 22, 2017
dude, he is obviously being sarcastic.
the first hint being nobody uses gay as a serious insult anymore
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:iconajones123:
Ajones123 Featured By Owner Oct 16, 2016
They were being sarcastic you moronic simpleton.
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:iconlizzerina369:
Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Fuck off, bitch. Don't fucking insult me about this, you fucking inbred piece of monkey shit. 
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:iconajones123:
Ajones123 Featured By Owner Oct 17, 2016
Are you serious? How old are you? 5? Grow the hell up and learn to properly insult someone.
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:iconthe-guy-you-hate:
the-guy-you-hate Featured By Owner Sep 17, 2016  Professional General Artist
That's horrible!

I was being sarcastic
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh my goodness. This is exactly it. Lol.
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DayGlorii Featured By Owner Aug 17, 2016  Student Digital Artist
gladly
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:iconpixl-potato:
pixl-potato Featured By Owner Jul 29, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
if people opened their fucking eyes, i definitely woulsnt be stuck with the events of an attempted rape in my mind.
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
I am sorry to hear that.
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:iconpixl-potato:
pixl-potato Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
didn't expect to get a response
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Lol. It is kind of old. I check this account from time to time.
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pixl-potato Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist Artist
makes sense
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AngellStarCake Featured By Owner Jul 28, 2016
What I hate about this is that if a woman is raped, even if the claim is false the man will be sent to jail and his life is RUINED. Yet if a man is raped he is not taken seriously. Makes me go apeshit.
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Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Actually, not all rapists are arrested. But sadly, the innocent people who were falsely accused get sent behind bars. 
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CommanderApollo Featured By Owner Sep 14, 2016
Their reputation is ruined and many will still view him as guilty.
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
It makes me too. It really disheartens me.
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Darkton93 Featured By Owner Jul 18, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Evil is evil. Evil doesn't care who it attacks. Claiming "my suffering is worse than your suffering!" doesn't actually fight evil.
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XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Yep.
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Yoshi1337 Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
theres this fucking anime ive seen a bit of (blame internet memes for introducing me to it) and theres apparently this crazy fuckin girl who constantly rapes this guy trying to get him to eat her vaginal fluids
people think its "hot" and they wish they were in the guy's position
but of COOOOOURSE, if it's a guy raping a girl, KILL IT WITH FIRE!!!
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XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
O.o yeah I can't say at least fantasy wise I don't have what you call the rape fetish but the double standard I can't stand. I do not support rape in rl at all. Something like that isn't actually sexy no matter who it is perpetuated against.
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Krazymanstudios Featured By Owner Jun 24, 2016  Hobbyist Filmographer
When a Wonman is raped: It's a senseless act that should have been prevented and she is telling the truth 100% of the time because she is sweet and innocent. When a man is raped: It's hilarious, it's justified, or he's lying. Most women I know think that women are oppressed in the west but that's a lie. They have more rights then men. Everyone deserves equality. Men are just as important as women.
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XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Aug 22, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Truth.
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Petponydomo Featured By Owner Edited May 31, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
YES THANK YOU
Just because it doesn't happen as often does NOT mean it's unimportant. 
Rape is rape regardless of any gender. 
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XxchantellexX Featured By Owner Jun 1, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
And that is the entire point whe there I agree with the statistics or not. 
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CosmosAndChaos Featured By Owner May 29, 2016
Rape is rape also when a woman is raped by another woman.
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner May 29, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Truth.
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Flower-Dash Featured By Owner May 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I've read an article about a 12-year old boy that was raped by a woman. And at the judge, a lot of men in the room said he should've enjoyed it ;n;
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Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
My best friend was sexually abused by his mothers boyfriend when he was 11 or 12. It was really sad. I hugged him so tight and he was crying, and then we were BOTH crying because it's so upsetting, but he's okay now. Talking about it helped him more than he thought it would, holding it in and brushing it away hurt him a lot. 
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Yoshi1337 Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i fuckin hate the people who think all men are emotionless sex-obsessed animals who should enjoy being raped
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Lizzerina369 Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2016  Hobbyist Photographer
Same here, it's awful. Men can have emotions. Not all men like sex. Some men get raped. :( 
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m-u-r-d-e-r-e-r Featured By Owner Sep 3, 2016
Me too.
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Flower-Dash Featured By Owner Jul 11, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
same here, i mean seriously, just because there are more men that rape women than women who rape men doesn't mean all men should enjoy sex without a word
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner May 27, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Are you serious?
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Flower-Dash Featured By Owner May 27, 2016  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I wish i was kidding
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:iconxxchantellexx:
XxchantellexX Featured By Owner May 27, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Omgosh. :< That is not okay at all. I'd like to sucker punch every single one of them.
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FeatherSpiral Featured By Owner Edited May 15, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
To be truthful, statistics only show women are reported to be raped more often; same with intimate partner violence. Criminal reports are skewed due to the stigma surrounding male rape and how we're supposed to "enjoy" it.
If you take a closer look, for example reevaluate the data from a CDC study from a few years ago, you'll note that the rates for both genders are very close but it's not called "rape" when men report assault from women.
Even some feminist articles claiming it "happens to women more" acknowledge this bias (but then add "it still happens to women more" backed up with criminal statistics, and get away with that obvious self-contradiction somehow).

EDIT: meep, reading the comments below made me realize you knew this.
"I don't know why people have to point that every comment. I am fully aware the statistics are wonky."
I think it's because the description doesn't really make that clear. It sounds like you agree that the known stats reflect the facts. You might want to put them between quote marks if you wanna avoid "callouts" in the future.
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XxchantellexX Featured By Owner May 15, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah I did know that, but it's okay. I really hate that it's not counted as rape, but I'm saying even despite that statistical data rape is rape. Another reason why people dismiss rapes against males especially when a woman does it is because of the statistical data and I'm saying that doesn't matter here. 

I know there was a man rape up by Canada by a woman who was drunk and everyone laughed it off because he should have enjoyed it. Even when women have the physical advantage being like 300 pounds and the man being only 150 or something they still don't want to admit women can rape men.
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FeatherSpiral Featured By Owner May 15, 2016  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeah, I saw that by reading previous comments, and suggested to add some quote marks to make sure you don't actually believe the data is accurate.

That also reminds me of (I think) two young girls who forcibly stripped a little boy, on camera and in public, giggling while he screamed. A few people commenting were outraged that the adults, particularly the boy's mother, laughed it off and didn't think it'd have any impact on the child.
In another case, two girls hired to babysit an autistic boy would take advantage of him; make him fetch a ball from icy water, kick him in the groin and so on. The mother admitted she didn't really know them well (yet left them to care for her son while she was working). In the news report, a woman (I forgot what she was, a chairman or an attorney, something in a position of influence) was showing sympathy for the mother because of her tarnished image.

I find we condition boys to value attention too much even when it's negative. Few males realize how fucked up this is; some confess they couldn't fight back a violent partner because they were afraid she'd report them as the prime aggressor.
I've read someone talk about a childhood experience, where his much older sisters forced him to try drugs (in a way that almost killed him) which pushed him into a path of addiction. His entire life was ruined because of that one act of "fun", and he still viewed it as a whole lot better than being a girl and getting raped.
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xXmenaredumbXx Featured By Owner Apr 25, 2016
MEN CANT BE RAPED!
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Dissonant-Wasteland Featured By Owner Mar 2, 2017  Hobbyist Artist
Yes, they can.
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